Meditation has many wonderful benefits for stress management. One of the most valuable aspects of meditation is that it can build resilience over time,1 but it can also help one feel less stressed in minutes if used as a tool to simply relax your body and mind. It can also help you to get into the practice of responding to the challenges in your life from a more relaxed, mindful place rather than reacting to life’s challenges out of fear, and it can help you to get in the practice of letting go of grudges and redirecting yourself away from rumination.2
Take a moment to adjust your spine and your sit bones bringing your body into a tall, proud position. Letting your shoulders roll back, opening up your heart. Placing your palms in your lap facing upwards.
Once you are comfortable, gently close your eyes and take a long, deep breath in through your nose, feeling your stomach expand. Your chest expands and you can hold your breath at the top.
When you’re ready, exhale with a long audible sigh. And at the end of that breath, breathe in deeply one more time holding it at the top. And when you’re ready, letting it all go with a sigh.
At the end of this breath, just return to a regular pace breathing into your nose and out through your mouth. Throughout the course of this meditation, letting all of your awareness be on this present moment on your breath. Anytime a thought about your day emerges, it’s perfectly okay to not judge yourself or get hung up on the thought, instead just return your awareness to your breath.
In your breath lies the deepest wisdom of your soul. You can drop into the moment, into your wisdom, letting go of everything that no longer serves.
After a long day, it’s time to return to your inner sanctuary, bringing all of your awareness into your heart center, the space in the center of your chest, and a couple of inches inwards.
Let your breath be soft and easy. As you focus in on this space, let yourself surrender to your heart, to this present moment. Within this moment lies unending love, compassion, wisdom. As you let go of the tensions of the day. You drop in into your heart, into this present moment.
Realigning and preparing yourself for a pleasant evening. Letting go. Centering in, and from this space, the feeling of peace, and centeredness. Let yourself bring to mind or word, thought, idea, or emotion that you desire to be your intention for this evening.
Let yourself breathe into how it feels, and express gratitude in your heart for this intention being true, welcoming it in, and when you’re ready, take a deep breath in through your nose.
Exhale with force from your mouth. As you roll your shoulders, wiggle your fingers and your toes. Then when you’re ready, open your eyes to the room around you.
Despite the many benefits of meditation, it can be an intimidating practice to begin. Perhaps surprisingly, many people don’t try meditation because they believe it’s difficult to practice or only effective with regular, lengthy sessions. Not true! Meditation can be practiced in many ways, so there is bound to be a collection of techniques that resonate with each individual, and with each person’s situation.
For example, if you are a bath person, a tub meditation may be the perfect thing for your next bath; chocolate lovers may greatly enjoy a chocolate meditation. Those who like to move may prefer walking meditation.
And while you can receive the biggest gains from meditation with frequent practice, just five minutes of meditation actually can bring quick stress relief. So if you only have five minutes for meditation, here’s how to make them count:
Steps for a Quick Meditation
If you are just getting started or want to try a quick meditation, here’s what to do:
Set Aside Time
Set a timer for five minutes, so you can relax and not worry about staying in meditation for ‘too long’, missing appointments. (If you have an iPhone, the Healing Music application can be used as a timer, though the regular timer that comes with most phones can also be useful.)
Relax Your Body
Just close your eyes and relax. Take a few deep breaths from your diaphragm and release the tension in your body.
Focus on a five-count breath:
- Slowly inhale from the belly
- Then into ribs
- Then into chest
- Up into crown of the head
- Then gently hold the breath for the fifth count
Reverse this process on the exhale for another count of five, exhaling from the crown, chest, ribs, belly, pausing on the last bit of breath out of the body, and then begin again.
Try to visualize the tension leaving your body from your head to your feet, either as imagining that the stress is literally draining from you through your toes, escaping your body with every breath, or simply melting away. Concentrating on your breath while you are imagining releasing your stress and tension helps give you something to focus on while also reaping the potent benefit of deep breaths.
Focus Your Mind
When you work on clearing your mind of thoughts, rather than focusing on ‘thinking of nothing’, focus on ‘being’, and when thoughts enter your mind, gently acknowledge them and let them go, returning your focus to the present moment again. If you focus on how well you are doing this, that becomes the focus. If you accept that constantly bringing your mind back to the present moment is the meditation, it will be much easier to keep your mind still.
Keep Going
Continue this for five minutes, and return to your day feeling more relaxed and refreshed. Simply focus on the sensations you are feeling in your body, focus on your breath, or focus on letting go. Try this meditation regularly, and you should feel less stressed overall.
Tips
- Be sure you’re in a comfortable position; little nagging discomforts like scratchy clothes or an awkward sitting position can be a distraction from meditation.
- Don’t get too focused on whether or not you’re ‘doing it right’. (This can actually make meditation more stressful!) Thoughts may often enter your head; the process of redirecting your focus to the present moment is where the benefit comes.
- Playing meditation music or using aromatherapy can enhance your practice. They aren’t necessary, but they can add to your experience if you can conveniently incorporate them.
- Meditation has been used for both short-term calming (it can reverse your stress response pretty quickly) and long-term resilience (the regular practice can help you become less reactive to stress), so frequent meditation is a wonderful and effective stress management tool.
- For best results, try to fit in longer meditation sessions (like 20 minutes or more) a few times per week. Then, you will be more practiced with meditation in general, and these 5-minute sessions will have more of an impact when you need them!